Christian Community exists when Christ followers connect with each other in authentic loving ways that encourage relationship with Christ.
Christian community exists when we engage in transparent relationships that cultivate and celebrate Christ’s love for humanity.
Taken from Spiritual Disciplines handbook, practices that transform Adele Ahlberg Calhoun
The idea of community as a transforming practice is foundational to our faith as followers of Christ. The Apostle Paul writes:
The human body has many parts, but the many parts make up only one body. So it is with the body of Christ. Some of us are Jews, some are Gentiles, some are slaves, and some are free. But we have all been baptized into Christ’s body by one Spirit, and we have all received the same Spirit.
But God made our bodies with many parts, and he has put each part just where he wants it. 19What a strange thing a body would be if it had only one part!
Yes, there are many parts, but only one body. 21The eye can never say to the hand, “I don’t need you.” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you.”
This makes for harmony among the members, so that all the members care for each other equally. Now all of you together are Christ’s body, and each one of you is a separate and necessary part of it. 1Corinthians 12:12-27
This passage recognizes our individuality but has the unquestioned understanding that the reader is in community. The idea that one could be a Christian and not be in community was simply not considered. To consider oneself part of a choir is to participate in the Choir.
Eric Whitacre is one of the most performed composers of his generation. After creating and conducting the “virtual choir” in 2010 — hundreds of voices from around the world singing together on YouTube — he’s back with a larger, even more ambitious work 2000 voices from around the world: “Sleep.”
http://www.ted.com/talks/eric_whitacre_a_virtual_choir_2_000_voices_strong.html
Whitacre highlighted the individual choir members; he shared how each participant had access to music, a conductor track, and a piano track. To consider oneself part of a choir is to participate in the Choir, but that does not mean that we sacrifice our individuality. He does a marvelous job of showing how individuality is essential for the success of the choir.
One of the mantras of Urban Bridge Church is that “if you think you belong you belong.” We say this understanding that Christian communities have often placed unrealistic expectations on individuals regarding what it means to belong.
We say that we belong when we feel that we feel we connect and the connection is significant.
We belong when we are committed to something meaningful to us.
We belong when we participate in a meaningful way.
An unfortunate outcome of this philosophy is a myopic, selfish participation, based on our needs. If you think you belong but you aren’t prepared to commit and when necessary sacrifice to community, do you belong?
I was impressed that Whitacre’s choir members took initiative to be part of this shared vision and that some of them did 50 to 60 takes for the shared vision
So let me add one more qualifier for belonging to the church, for belonging to Urban Bridge Church: We belong when we commit, sometimes sacrificially for the sake of others. We are part of a shared vision, something bigger than any individual pursuit. And the music we make together is beautiful.
Each of us has individual expressions of our faith, but we come together in shared values, in community for things like: The HIV Edmonton walk for life, picnics, and smaller groups. We volunteer for activities like worship teams and urban kids. Our commitment is often not for our sakes, but for the sake of community.
Urban Women smaller group story
Community is God working on more than building a church. He has created so much beauty, structure, order and love that he needs us to partner with him to create community. Community can be people partnering to do a number of things; anything from gardening, reading books, performing art, studying micro-organisms, and baking cake
By doing this we allow ourselves to come together with other like-minded (not the same, but with similar) people to laugh, cry, challenge and grow together.
Urban Women is a group of women living their lives in community with one another. It is a safe place where we can connect, practice and live out our faith together.
Why does Urban Women work? None of us are perfect and we all have plenty of room to grow. We are simply living life together, knowing how to be vulnerable, giving and receiving encouragement, learning from and inspiring each other (as well as a certain favorite literary male presence…uh hum, Donald Miller!).
We understand that real community takes time, honesty and commitment, but that it can come from all walks in life.
Thy kingdom come and thy will be done is accomplished in community. Heaven is perfected in community and we spend our days on earth practicing for it.
Since God chose you to be the holy people whom he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. You must make allowance for each other’s faults and forgive the person who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Colossians 3:12-13 NLT
One of our shared values is Authenticity; “We will encourage people to be who they are, change who they are, discover who they are and walk with them through the process” Yet when we are in a crisis of faith or when we disagree we often pull away from community rather than push in for resolve. Our differences and inclinations naturally pull us away. We have learned that the tension generated by overruling our natural inclinations through intentional community makes us stronger as a community and as individuals.
Whitacre referred to dissonance and harmony as complimentary qualities. Scott Drennan who belongs to a choir explores Harmony and dissonance
We think of harmony as notes that sound good together, but really harmony is much more complex. Harmony includes consonance – pitches that ‘fit’ together and that sound relaxed, and dissonance – pitches that ‘clash’ together and that creation tension.
The reasons that certain combinations of pitches are perceived as sounding more consonant or dissonant have a lot to do with physics and mathematics, but they are also tightly bound to culture, tradition, and expectation.
One way of defining good music is that is has a balance of consonance and dissonance – a balance of relaxed and tense moments that unite to form a whole harmonic landscape.
“The creation and destruction of harmonic…tensions is essential to the maintenance of compositional drama. Any composition…which remains consistent and ‘regular’ throughout is, for me, equivalent to watching a movie with only ‘good guys’ in it….” – Frank Zappa
Because the human voice can normally only produce a single note at a time, the only way to achieve any kind of harmony in singing – consonant or dissonant – is as a group, a choir. Singing as part of a choir is one of the richest parts of my life, it’s come to define a lot of who I am and it’s been an enormous blessing for me for about 22 years now.
I think singing together with others is also one of the most intimate experiences people can share. When you are creating harmony with another person, it’s not just an auditory experience – you can feel it too. I’m not being metaphorical here: because of the physical vibrations and air movements involved, you can actually feel it in your mouth, your throat, your nose, your head, your chest, and sometimes your toes and your eyeballs too.
Singing in consonance with another voice augments both voices – it makes each note stand out more while at the same time weaving a greater whole of those parts. It sounds good and it feels good. Singing in dissonance with another voice is a whole different kind of awesome. Just as you can physically feel the melding of the parts in consonance, you can feel the clashing and ripping of the parts in dissonance. It’s like having a really good argument, where each voice competes to assert itself, until finally the voices move and achieve a resolution.
Most people I know who pursue choral music have absolutely zero interest in becoming soloists, at least in part because we would miss that intimate conversation that we find when singing together. I have been in many choir and many types of choirs in my life. And so often I have finished singing a piece of music only to look around and discover everyone around me beaming not only with pride but also with the joy of experiencing this shared act of creation.
For a really great example of how music, community, and the creative act function together, read the Ainulindalë at the beginning of J.R.R. Tolkien’s “Silmarillion.”
The church in community is how God, by the Spirit of Christ fuses us to each other and to God. It is God’s primary method of transforming you and me and society into the image he has of us.
Practices that transform- Community
Reflection
1 How do you respond to the words : dependent, independent, and interdependent? How does your response affect your experience in Christian community?
2 How does the life you are living reflect the value that Christ places on community?
Spiritual exercises
1 Ask someone to tell you his or her story. How does their story give you a deeper understanding between you, them and God?
2 Include others outside immediate family in a family gathering.
3 If you have something against another person go to them and make it right.
4 Write thank you notes to those who have helped you.
5 Join a smaller group.
Taken from Spiritual Disciplines handbook
ractices that transform Us Adele Ahlberg Calhoun